Even though tipping is thought to be optional, in today’s society it is expected. Because of the contrast of ideal and reality,
we are often, rightfully, confused. And, if we short-tip, we are
viewed harshly.
To help with that
confusion, what follows are a few scenarios with solutions.
Going
Out to Dinner with Short-Tippers
So, what should we do
when you’re out to dinner with your future in-laws and they leave an
embarrassingly small tip
on the table? It would be ill-mannered to correct them; but if
there is an inconspicuous way to leave some money on the table as all are
leaving, do it. Still, waitstaff expects some to be socially
clueless. Consequently, and unfortunately, they are prepared for the
short-tipper.
How
About That Generous Bartender?
How much we should be
tipping a bartender who has discounted our drinks all night? Usually, we
tip a bartender similarly to waitstaff: approx. 20%. If in a group with
all satisfied with the service, the tip should be increased.
Often though, it may be
best to tip per drink, especially if seated at the bar and paying per drink
with no tab. This tip is usually $1 to $2 depending on the price of the
drink and complexity. However, $1 per drink is acceptable.
Tipping per drink also
ensures that your bartender gets the tip and not the next bartender on shift
change.
Tipping
Staff at Resorts?
This should be simple
but of course, it isn’t. I’ll try to smooth
over the complications.
Tipping is roughly
the same for beach servers, valets, pool attendants, bellboys, and
housekeepers: $2-$5 per action.
For example, tip $2
when the valet returns our car to us. Beach servers typically work as waiters,
except our tip is typically $2-$3 a sandwich or drink. Tip bellboys $2 to
$5 per bag depending on the size of the bag and the type of hotel. Upscale? Tip more. In most hotels, tip housekeepers
$1 to $2 per person per day. Tips
increase for luxury hotels
up to $5 per person, although many don't tip at all.
Pool attendants are
tricky. Some are part of the hotel and are paid to set up the area.
If they do something specific, like putting up an umbrella or getting sunblock
for a person, then tip $2-$5 depending on task is typical. Some are employees
of another business
and contracted to do the job.
Most often, there is a
booth for items guests may rent. Usually, there is no tip expected or
required. It is best to request information about the pool, recreational
activities, and fees when booking the room. Some of these are covered by
the hotel’s “resort fees” that are tacked onto the room rate.
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