Guest Rules: How to be a Great Guest

The Hostess Gift

An invitation to another’s home is a privilege and honor, so the good guest would behave as such. Guests should bring some type of gift such as a bottle of wine, flowers, or even a single rose as a token of appreciation.

Note: It’s much easier for the host if flowers are already in a vase. Dollar stores usually have nice ones in stock. One dollar and done!

Must-Follow Rules

Guests should avoid picking up or reading notes laying around, entering rooms uninvited, putting feet up on the furniture, or indulging in anything unoffered. After the gathering, guests should also write a thank-you note thanking the host for including him/her.

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Using Teachable Moments When Planning & Hosting Parties

Dear Rebecca, What do children and teens learn from their parent’s throwing parties ? Parent Dear Parent, Children of all ages learn everything from their parents. They learn all their manners , which is basically how we treat others and ourselves. They also learn etiquette, which is the protocol, how we behave, or how we are expected to behave in public. So, if a child’s parents throw raucous parties with alcohol and loud music, the child will believe that this is what is expected at parties. If the parents cater to their guests, treating them as special, the child will learn that he/she should treat their guests as special. Parents are their child’s best teachers to teach him/her about life and being a good person. Pro-Tip Involve your child in the planning and preparation of the party. Teach him/her how to focus on guests' needs. Most sincerely, Rebecca More by Rebecca Q & A: The Best and Worst Parties I’ve Hosted or At...

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